Don't Commit These 3 Common Mistakes and You'll Succeed in Getting Your Ex-Girlfriend Back!

Have you gone through a painful breakup? Was it your girlfriend who ended the relationship? If so, you are probably very emotional and on the verge of doing something you will regret. Before you do anything, you need to understand that your actions will have consequences and they may even make things worse.

The following are the common mistakes you need to avoid committing if your goal is to get your ex-girlfriend back:

1. Don’t call or text your ex-girlfriend. This is a mistake many people make after a breakup. It is normal to want to stay in touch with your ex so you can hopefully sway her opinion and get her to take you back. If you keep calling and texting your ex-girlfriend, however, she is going to end up frustrated even if your intentions are good. What you should do is give her some time alone to figure out what she wants. Even if she hasn’t specifically asked you for this time, she will be glad if you give it to her. It can help you win her back down the road.

2. Don’t send her flowers. The only time you should consider sending flowers is if you have something very serious to say that you are sorry for. Your ex broke up with you and left you hurting so she doesn’t deserve flowers. Also, if you send her flowers in order to try to win her back, what you are doing is manipulating her. Your ex-girlfriend is going to see through this gesture and be offended that you are using a gift in such a manner. This is not going to help you win her back.

3. Don’t confess your undying love for your ex and swear to wait for her. This is a common mistake that will make you look weak and unappealing in your ex girlfriend’s eyes. It might seem like this is a good thing to say because it proves how much you love her but she will interpret it to mean no matter what she does, including seeing other guys, you are going to be around waiting for her. You don’t want her to think you are a doormat that she can step all over. You should not express your feelings; let her figure them out. This will make you seem mysterious and that is going to be appealing to her. She will want to talk to you to find out how you feel.

These are only three of the common mistakes men make when they are trying to win their ex-girlfriend back. They are ones you definitely want to avoid. Stay away from these mistakes and you have a good chance to win your ex back. If you can be patient and keep your emotions in check, your ex-girlfriend may ask you to take her back. It isn’t easy and it can take awhile but all you can do at this point is wait.



How To Get Your Ex Back